Missionary Mom Tip #1: Make connections with moms who also have a child in the same mission

The following was shared on my social media March 11, 2025. 

I was saying a prayer and thanking Heavenly Father for the opportunity I have had of being a missionary mom. I was feeling grateful for so many things. Including making connections with other moms from the mission and the joy that has brought me.  I was impressed with the thought of doing a daily countdown and sharing a missionary mom tip or something that's helped me find joy in this journey. I'll never get to be a missionary mom again.This season of my life is ending. So why not share some things I've learned along the way that might help someone else. 

Only 8 days until Eliza comes home and tip #1 - Make a connection with some of the other mothers in the mission. 

When my first child left, there was no video chatting or regular phone calls.  We introduced ourselves to each other when taking our missionary to the airport and exchanged phone numbers. If one mom received a picture of their child from the flight or layover to the mission from a random, kind stranger, it was sent to our new group of missionary moms. We all get excited and happy. Closing in the gap just a bit with a recent goodbye to a child.  

When Eliza left, I met two moms early that morning at the airport whose sons were going to the same mission. We’ve become friends, and now our group of missionary moms has expanded. We share lunch dates, pictures, and support through our GroupMe. At our last lunch, one mom suggested that as we introduced ourselves to the new moms, we show a picture of our Elder or Sister. Which was awesome for all of us to see. We were connecting that some of our children are in the same district or they did splits together or enjoyed a p-day adventure together. Now, when I see Eliza's pictures, I better recognize and know who the other missionaries are and even know their mom's, too! 

For me, a connection with other mothers helps with the loneliness or sadness of having a child gone AND is another way to feel joy when your child is away serving and teaching others about the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.

I'm grateful for missionaries and their mothers. 

10 Days Until My Missionary Returns Home!!

On March 9, 2025 I made a post like this on my social media. I was beginning a 10-day count down of Eliza returning from her mission on March 19, 2025. Wahoo!!

So much excitement and gratitude!!

In 10 days, my amazing daughter will be coming home after serving as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in France!

I am overflowing with delight and gratitude as I think about the many lives she's touched and the many that have touched and blessed her life. This includes companions, leaders and teachers at the MTC, terrific mission leaders, senior missionary couples, members in the branches and wards, all her fellow missionary pals, the many people she met and were willing to talk to her, and all those who would listen to her share and teach about the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.

The faith, strength, and love she's exhibited over the past 18 months have been such an inspiration to me. I can’t wait to welcome her home, hear her stories, see her notebook of miracles, and see the incredible person she’s become through this experience.

I’m so proud of her and grateful for the service she’s done in France and Belgium—what a beautiful journey it has been!

Your Worth and My Worth is Great!!

My Aunt Betty Wade had this picture hanging on her refrigerator for years. It was a strength and a reminder to my younger self, many times. Okay, even my older self at times needs it too. 

We all go through times in our life where we question who we are and doubt our worth, maybe that is you right now. You might question if you matter to God or if God really knows you. Here is my plea and witness to you (and maybe this post will be a reminder to me when I need it in the days or months to come, because I forget) - YOU matter, God does know you and you are not forgotten.

 

Ask Him how He feels about you.

Do not let the enemy rob you of your worth and don't let the world define your worth. Your worth is great! You really ARE a child of God!

The truth is, YOU are of such great worth that someone gave their life for YOU! Jesus Christ, your older brother, has already suffered for your pains, your mistakes, your sorrows - He really knows how you are feeling. Pause and think about that for a minute. It’s amazing, isn’t it?

 

That is one of the reasons why Easter time is so special to me.

The enemy of your soul and the world might tell you things like: “you are too far gone”, OR “what you say or do doesn’t matter” OR “you are not enough _______ (fill in the blank)”, OR that “you are beyond the reach of God or Jesus Christ and Their love and help”. Those are lies! The enemy desires you to be miserable like he is. Is it working? If so, please don’t let him steal another day of your worth, your peace, your happiness.

 

While it is true our choices might distance us from Jesus Christ and Heavenly Father, I know they acknowledge the reaching and humble heart.

As we turn toward God, have “a change of mind and heart that brings a fresh attitude toward God, oneself, and life in general” that is repenting. And oh, the great joy that brings Jesus Christ.

Let's all give God joy today! 

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Post script/side note... Posting and sharing truth like the above takes courage, which I do not always have it. I fear a lot and I have doubts. BUT, God knows that too and He sends little messages to give my encouragement, strength, and power to go forward and to do His will, which He inspired me to do. Such was the case with the following verses from Doctrine and Covenants 19, which I read a few days ago.

29 And thou shalt declare glad tidings, yea, publish it upon the mountains, and upon every high place, and among every people that thou shalt be permitted to see.

30 And thou shalt do it with all humility, trusting in me, reviling not against revilers.

37 And speak freely to all; yea, preach, exhort, declare the truth, even with a loud voice, with a sound of rejoicing, crying—Hosanna, hosanna, blessed be the name of the Lord God!

These verses spoke to my heart, given to me through the Spirit, enlightening my mind that this is a great guide to social media posting and what God desires of me.  Go forth and share my testimony, my witness, what I am learning, and my joy! 

Layton Temple Baptistry, the Art, AND "Look to God and Live"

As a new temple worker, I continue to be amazed at the "behind the scenes", or the mechanics and many details that help a temple function orderly and properly. The House of the Lord is indeed a house of order. I knew it. I've seen it as a patron. But as a temple worker I am getting a closer look and I see and understand at a different level. I rejoice and am grateful the Lord's house is this way.

Layton temple baptistry, image downloadeded from https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/layton-utah-temple-ready-public-tours

My temple assignment for August (2024) has been serving in the baptistry. I get to serve Thursday morning - the first shift. My very first day in the baptistry, and during the first few minutes of learning my assignment, it was a bit overwhelming and rushed. Patrons were ready to come and perform baptism ordinances for their decesased family members. Myself and few other workers were doing our best to learn our part to add to the order and flow of the baptistry, plus striving to look confident in our assignmnet while helping the patrons have a good experience. Not flawless, but I think we succeeded.

Along with the order at the temple, I am continuing to learn how revelatory the temple is. Such was the case this first day in the baptistry for me.

Baptisty image of the Layton Utah temple on the west wall. Downloaded from https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/layton-utah-temple-ready-public-tours

Earlier in May, during the temple open house, I saw the baptistry. But now I have the awesome opportunity of a closer, longer look at the large murals postitioned at the top of each of the walls. I was really drawn to the one of Moses holding up the brass serpent. "Didn't I just read something about this in my recent studies in the book of Alma?", I thought to myself. Pondering the painting, while also thinking to myself, "if the Israelites would have simply looked, they could have been healed". The healing was right there, within sight, they just needed to look. Look! The depressed, unhappy, hurting people seen in the picture, who were choosing not to look, was sad to me.

My thoughts in the temple lead me to:

1. Find out who the artist is, what the painting is called, and to learn more about it and the other murals on the baptistry walls.

2. Return to my scriptures to find those verses I read that I felt was connecting me to this painting. 

Scriptures and Teachings:

Here is one of the verses that I had remembered reading, from Alma 37:46: 

"O my son, do not let us be slothful because of the easiness of the way; for so was it with our fathers; for so was it prepared for them, that if they would look they might live; even so it is with us. The way is prepared, and if we will look we may live forever."

Trust Him, come to Him, look to God and live. It's simple, and yet we often allow the easiness of the way to trip us up. We are learning, so we trip again and again. Even in our tripping and falling, forgetting, and being slothful, He is always there. Waiting and hoping for us to look up to Him. Why? So He can heal us. So He can help us on our journey. Our journey in life is better with Jesus Christ and His Spirit as our guides. Let's turn and look to Him quickly.

This online, excellent resource is a great explanation:  To Live, Look to God and Trust in Him --https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/liahona/2022/04/united-states-and-canada-section/to-live-look-to-god-and-trust-in-him?lang=eng

A few days earlier, I also remembered seeing this posted on the Gospel Living App, "Don't make life harder than it needs to be", which was also connecting my thoughts back to the painting. 

Don’t make life harder than it needs to be. The Savior wants to heal us!

Scripture of the Day: “O my brethren, if ye could be healed by merely casting about your eyes that ye might be healed, would ye not behold quickly, or would ye rather harden your hearts in unbelief, and be slothful, that ye would not cast about your eyes, that ye might perish?” —Alma 33:21

In this verse, Alma is talking about a time in the Old Testament when some of the Israelites were bitten by poisonous snakes!

Under the Lord’s direction, Moses made a snake out of brass. He held it up and told the people they would be healed if they looked at it. Easy enough, right? But some people were so stubborn and unbelieving that they refused to look! And they died.

(By the way, we know that last part—the fact that some people refused to look—from the Book of Mormon! That detail wasn’t in the Bible. Another example of how both books work together.)

Anyway, the story sounds ridiculous when it’s summarized like that. Imagine you’re dying but you won’t accept the cure because … it’s too easy? What kind of sense does that make??

But... then again... we’re all guilty of doing that spiritually sometimes, aren’t we? The Savior offers us joy and eternal life if we follow His example, and yet how often do we make things harder for ourselves by not “looking” to Him?

Choose to look to the Savior and live!

It is such a better way to live. Jesus Christ is the light, the truth, the way, and He knows the way. Coming unto Him is always the best choice.

 

The Art:

Searching on the Church website, I learned that the artist of the murals is A. B. Wright. The same murals are in the Cardston Albert temple baptisty too. (The Cardston temple was announced June 27, 1913 and dedicated August 26, 1923.) Thanks to this 1978 Ensign article, "Paintings from the Alberta Canada Temple", by Paul L. Anderson, I learned a lot.

The article states: "Paintings in the...baptistry were the work of A. B. Wright (1875–1952), professor of art at the LDS University in Salt Lake City. Known for his landscapes and portraits, he had studied in Paris at Academie Julian and the Ecole des Beaux Arts."

"Moses Leads Israel" is the name of  A. B. Wright's painting shown in the baptistry of the Alberta Temple and now the Layton Temple. When the Israelites were poisoned, Moses placed a brazen serpent on a pole - a symbol of Jesus Christ's Atonement, His crucifixion, and Christ's power to heal (see also 2 Nephi 25:20).

From the 1978 article mentioned above ("Paintings from the Alberta Canada Temple"), I took screen shots of the images, cropped them, and here they are below.  A. B. Wright did more, but these are all of his images that are in the Layton Temple baptistry.

I am glad I put in the effort to discover and learn these things. It has been revelatory for me and is another witness that Jesus Christ is all throughout His house. My time serving in the baptistry of the Layton temple has become that more sweet. I rejoice in the temple. Plus, observing and appreciating the talents, skills, artistic abilities of others is also something to rejoice in. This experience of mine is worth recording and something I hope to always remember. 

If you want to learn more about baptismal ordinances for deceased family members, you can find more here: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/baptisms-for-the-dead?lang=eng#title1

It matters tremendously what we do in relation to those who have gone before, because they live today as spirits and shall live again as immortal souls, and that because of Jesus Christ. We believe His words when He said, “I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live” (John 11:25). By the baptisms we perform in behalf of the dead, we testify that “as in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive. …

“For he must reign, till he hath put all enemies under his feet.

“The last enemy that shall be destroyed is death” (1 Corinthians 15:22, 25–26).

By Elder D. Todd Christofferson, "Why Do We Baptize for the Dead?"

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/new-era/2009/03/why-do-we-baptize-for-the-dead?lang=eng

Have you ever done temple baptisms?  You might be interested in these details about the revelations regarding baptisms for the dead. The following comes from a recent article posted on the Gospel Living App. https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/inspiration/have-you-ever-done-temple-baptisms?lang=eng&cardid=00000190-bc11-d709-a9db-ff59751b0000

The following are notes for other baptistry area paintings I want to look into.

I love the painting behind the desk where patrons print family names or are issued the names to do baptisms for. It's striking!! I felt something special and liked it the first time I saw it during the temple open house. The lions almost look lifelike. Daniel is calm and peaceful, he knows who He can trust. Check out the lighting around Daniel while he prays and knees amongst lions in the den. Beautiful! The artist is Ken Corbett.

https://youtu.be/QHfqxwvj2L4?si=fFiksFBrNDNoOP6w - this is a video interview with Ken Corbett and this painting of Daniel in the lions den. 

There is another large, beautiful picture across from the family name desk. I have very little details about it. Some say it is of a George Washington Hill, a pioneer leader who helped teach and Baptize many Native Americans in Northern Utah.